A key paragraph for marriage. . or any relationship at work... ..Feeling with integrity our positive and negative emotions can guide us.
Negative emotions of anger, fear, jealousy or blame are a signal to explore our own history to see what we need to learn. With complete integrity we can see how what bothers us in others --is a signal of something we need to explore within ourselves in finding inner peace. Learn to be open to learn our own lessons, forgive, ask for divine help, and find a return to inner peace - with eyes able to see more clearly. Once we do, we are open to guidance or solutions.
For those acquiring any new level of authority, as a parent, teacher, church leader or in the workplace.... there is almost always a tendency to fall in to our lower states of competitiveness, abuse of power, or use of power to control others.
Learning this and listening within, we can listen to the inner stress we experience and search for new ways to lead. Learning to lead, with integrity, humility, meekness, and service,... while working in councils with others, is a great journey of life.
Letting go of manipulation, control, intimidation, and insistence helps us seek another way and is a key part in allowing higher visions of life and light come into us.
Moses 5:16. Who was Cain? President Joseph Fielding Smith (1876-1972) gave this description of Cain: Cain was born of goodly parents. Michael, the great prince, who helped form the earth, was his father.
No man, save Jesus Christ, was ever blessed with greater honor or responsibility than Michael. No man deserved to be honored more than he. He had been given the first place in the history of the world and was taught directly from the heavens.
Cain had the great honor of being Adam's son, and he, too, was privileged with the same blessings as his father. W hat a mighty man he could have been! How his name might have stood out with excellent luster as that of one of the valiant sons of God! How he might have been honored to the latest generation! But he would have none of it!
His parents in their fallen state tried to push religion or belief in God on him. In Moses 5:16 we read, And Adam and Eve, his wife, ceased not to call upon God. And Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bare Cain, and said: I have gotten a man from the Lord; wherefore he may not reject his words. But behold, Cain hearkened not, saying: Who is the Lord that I should know him?
Did Eve loss the spirit when she tried to force Cain? Cain did not trust Eve's process, because words do not teach as effectively as quiet example and trusting in the Kingdom within . Cain was free to reject or choose to trust Authority figures as parents or God.
Not giving our children choices may be the beginning of distrustful Cain like behavior. Could it start with how we feed our children. Seeing through emotional eyes brings entirely new meaning to scriptures and life.
Clearly Cain as a name for a skin color or race was a view men mingled with scripture. Knowing the divine nature within all mankind, anyone who forces children ----loses the light of love, power of heaven, and path to teaching and kindness. In the last of the Book of Mormon chapters. Moroni was very concerned about those who believe children are born in sin.